The world would probably be a lot better off, if everyone just took things for what they are, instead of reading their stuff into everything.
Or, as another poster quoted a famous psychotherapist in another thread today, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. I also concur with the sentiment of others here about how irritating it is that such a small slice of the population seems to be driving the discussion because of their choice on how they use their genitalia. Quite tiresome...