Many women get a false sense of themselves-put themselves on a pedestal.
Example a 8.5/9/10 guy will pick up a 5/10 woman at a bar just for sex and she then get's a false sense of herself. This might happen to her every so often..as you said guys just want laid and don't care about her looks as long as she is not hideous.
Later, 5/10 guys will try to date her and she thinks she can do better...because hey a 9/10 guy showed interest in her and turns them down. Later when she wants to be married or in a lt relationship she finds out the hard way and finally settles for the 5/6/10 guy.
Ok, now you just sound like Tom Leykis, a man who I can’t even begin to express the contempt I hold towards. But I have daughters, and I doubt any father with daughters doesn’t want to punch him the mouth.