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We have seen a large number of these former wives and soon to be former wives.

Certain behavorial patterns often seem to be common:

Expensive hair stylists several times each month and weekly spa treatments, and the husband is never asked if he likes the new hair style. Who pays for these hair and spa sessions?

While keeping the above, the wife hires a personal fitness trainer who makes visits while the husband is working. Often, if the personal trainer is a young hunk, she and he become friends with benefits. The husband gets no benefirs. Again, who gets to pay for all of this improvement and her benefits?

Expensive dental work re braces and other cosmetic dental work. Dentists who provide these expensive services often have close to a dozen assistants working for them. So who is paying for their salaries? Again, who pays for this?

Expensive clothing is now necessary for her new figure and hair. Talbots may not be expensive enough. Again who pays for this?

The, “I need to find my self which includes, expensive education courses that really don’t insure a good job.” Weekly nights out with their women friends and a couple of trips each year to Vegas or somewhere else, where what happens stays there. Often they go shopping for the new and very expensive clothes, they need. Again, who pays for this?

Yelling and screaming until the kiddy commute van is traded in for a luxury car. Again, who pays for this?

Then, often, the improved one gets a low paying job inspite of all of her improvement. The low paying job seems to be very demanding. She leaves early and comes home late, too tired to have much to do with the husband. Again/still, he has no benefits. Her salary doesn’t really cover her new work expenses and in particuliar her expensive work clothes, lunches/dinners without the husband and of course commuting costs.

Then, the wife trades up for a co worker, boss or a supposedly richer friend in their group. Gets a divorce and doesn’t remarry. Again, who pays for all of this.

Later, the former wife becomes a cougar and dumps the new lover. Or new lover drops her for a new improved model, then, then, she becomes a cougar, often living in the orginal husband’s home and still driving the luxury car he bought for her. Of course, he still is paying monthly support payments, so she can maintain her new improved life style, Again, who pays for all of this.

Of course, Oprah, the View and other anti husband tv shows have been great spiritual guides for these new improved, former wives.