Having seen your contribution of what the man’s duties are in a sexual relationship, I will await your contribution as to what the woman’s duties are.
Prepare to be deluged with angry pro-porn posts.
Any thread dealing with porn invariably turns more bitter and hateful than even the old War on Drug or Evo threads ever were.
It’s actually quite amazing.
if one wishes to break the “allure” of pornography, have people view the raw footage of it, not the “scripted” final product. The unedited footage, is actually pretty gross with the director shouting orders to the actors and the camera guys.
When you get upset, you like to watch Porn.
When you want to watch Porn, you realize that you have a TV / Internet Access Bundle so you can't watch Porn because the Internet Connection is also out.
When you realize you can't watch Porn in your own House because the Cable is out, you take your Laptop with you and drive around the neighborhood in your Car looking for an Unsecured Network Connection.
When you find an Unsecured Network Connection, you park your Car in front of the House with the Unsecured Network Connection and fire up the Laptop.
When you fire up the Laptop and start watching Porn, the person who lives in the House with the Unsecured Network Connection looks out the window and sees you doing things you shouldn't be doing in your Car while parked in the Street.
When the neighbor who sees you doing things in your Car that you shouldn't be doing while parked in front of his House, he calls the Police.
When the Police arrive and catch you doing things in your Car that you shouldn't be doing, you get arrested and go to Jail.
When you go to Jail and tell another Inmate what you're in for, you become someones Boyfriend.
Don't become someones Boyfriend because you like to watch Porn, switch to Direct TV.
Good article.
Forbidden knowledge?
Pornography is bad vice and a sin against God. And yes, sex to a woman is seen as part of the relationship as a whole, and yes, my job as a man is to continually gain her favor and love.
But there’s just a tone here in this article that portrays man should be milquetoast and reserved in his sexuality and not a passionate lover seeking out the sexual adventure that God has placed in his heart toward his wife (Proverbs 5:19).
Sadly, this is also the standard message of the Christian church. If a man’s sexuality was truly validated in the church I believe there would be a lot less divorce - a man would get the clue there’s something missing and deal with heart issues with his wife, but instead the church thru omission instills a feeling guiltiness about his desire for passionate sex and this essential missing component leads to breakdowns in the core relational areas of marriage.