Posted on 06/01/2012 5:10:15 PM PDT by Morgana
Having seen your contribution of what the man’s duties are in a sexual relationship, I will await your contribution as to what the woman’s duties are.
Prepare to be deluged with angry pro-porn posts.
Any thread dealing with porn invariably turns more bitter and hateful than even the old War on Drug or Evo threads ever were.
It’s actually quite amazing.
You’re right about that.
It covers the womans duties as well.
“Prepare to be deluged with angry pro-porn posts.”
Yes I know. Quite aware of it.
Some people do not know what “conservative” and “moral absolutes” means.
I guess they are going to their favorite nudie site in between going to Free Republic.
For Shame.
A woman’s contribution is to always look as if she ready to bear a child (fecund and youthful)—yet never actually become pregnant. Howzzat?
if one wishes to break the “allure” of pornography, have people view the raw footage of it, not the “scripted” final product. The unedited footage, is actually pretty gross with the director shouting orders to the actors and the camera guys.
You can strive towards achieving that goal if you want. I would not consider it necessary.
My wife makes porn unnecessary. After three kids and close to thirty years of being together, she's generally in the mood for sex at least four times a week, sometimes more.
My philosophy is, a woman who makes an effort to keep her husband sexually satisfied has the right to complain if he becomes heavily into porn.
A wife who is not in the mood to keep her husband happy, who is not interested in sex more than once a week, should not act surprised if her husband watches porn as an alternative outlet.
A wife who is in the mood less than once a month, should not act surprised when her husband leaves her. Actually, my experience with my married friends is that when a wife has lost interest, it's likely that she hasn't lost interest in sex, just sex with him, and she likely will be filing divorce papers soon.
When you get upset, you like to watch Porn.
When you want to watch Porn, you realize that you have a TV / Internet Access Bundle so you can't watch Porn because the Internet Connection is also out.
When you realize you can't watch Porn in your own House because the Cable is out, you take your Laptop with you and drive around the neighborhood in your Car looking for an Unsecured Network Connection.
When you find an Unsecured Network Connection, you park your Car in front of the House with the Unsecured Network Connection and fire up the Laptop.
When you fire up the Laptop and start watching Porn, the person who lives in the House with the Unsecured Network Connection looks out the window and sees you doing things you shouldn't be doing in your Car while parked in the Street.
When the neighbor who sees you doing things in your Car that you shouldn't be doing while parked in front of his House, he calls the Police.
When the Police arrive and catch you doing things in your Car that you shouldn't be doing, you get arrested and go to Jail.
When you go to Jail and tell another Inmate what you're in for, you become someones Boyfriend.
Don't become someones Boyfriend because you like to watch Porn, switch to Direct TV.
>”Prepare to be deluged with angry pro-porn posts. Any thread dealing with porn invariably turns more bitter and hateful than even the old War on Drug or Evo threads ever were.”
Well, this is how the anti-porn folks have started, “...his unshaved face, his slothfulness, his halitosis, his body odor, and his physical appearance.” Actually, the desire to attract a mate isn’t the only reason why people (or non-slobs) try to avoid being disgusting. Also can you provide a link to one of those threads. I recall a thread about porn in which it was suggested that porn makes people stupid, but on the whole I didn’t think that thread was especially bitter.
Good article.
“if one wishes to break the “allure” of pornography, have people view the raw footage of it, not the “scripted” final product. The unedited footage, is actually pretty gross with the director shouting orders to the actors and the camera guys.”
Okay Ouderkirk and you know this HOW?
or do I want to know?
Probably because he has gotten fat and careless with his hygiene.
The tired cliche is that many women get fat after marriage. It is an undeniable fact that many men do also, which is as equally a turn-off to us as fat women are to men.
In a previous life I edited video for a living. During slow periods, my employer would bring in work from “other sources” which included pornography. The director would have viewed all of it frame by frame, and would specify how he wanted the “film” to progress.
After a couple of those, it was time to find a new line of work, and with it a new appreciation of what pornography is not.
Oh gee now I know who dubs in that cheese 70’s porn music in all the videos!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6kxau0ePlg&feature=related
Forbidden knowledge?
Pornography is bad vice and a sin against God. And yes, sex to a woman is seen as part of the relationship as a whole, and yes, my job as a man is to continually gain her favor and love.
But there’s just a tone here in this article that portrays man should be milquetoast and reserved in his sexuality and not a passionate lover seeking out the sexual adventure that God has placed in his heart toward his wife (Proverbs 5:19).
Sadly, this is also the standard message of the Christian church. If a man’s sexuality was truly validated in the church I believe there would be a lot less divorce - a man would get the clue there’s something missing and deal with heart issues with his wife, but instead the church thru omission instills a feeling guiltiness about his desire for passionate sex and this essential missing component leads to breakdowns in the core relational areas of marriage.
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