I don’t know why I clicked on this thread...I have no idea who Cat Deely is.
Is she famous?
I’m with you. Never heard of her.
I bet your subconscious knows why you clicked on it. The only male I know named "Cat" was Cat Stevens, who used to be Steven Demetre Georgiou, and he isn't even "Cat" or "Steven" or "Stevens" or "Demetre" or "Georgiou" any more. Some "Yusuf Islam" crap name.) So, it must be a woman. Ergo, assuming you are both guys, your brain says, "Click on this, NOW!" If one or both of you are women, I don't know what to say.