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>We have lost the understanding of simply being. like the famiy going fishing in the Rockwell painting. Being with family, rather than doing something. it’s kinda a zen thing, but as I grow older I find more value in simply being sometimes.
You are right; and the truly twisted thing about it is that there is a deadly-philosophy that many have embraced which invalidates ‘being’ for many: feminism.
Feminism, in practice, counts a man as nothing for his maleness; additionally it counts many women as nothing for being feminine (e.g. a young woman who wants to start a family right after high-school is looked down on and derided).
So then, in a culture that has so strongly embraced feminism there cannot be any of that “simply being” for many people because the being of that person is socially/culturally invalidated.