” just can’t find a truck with the tow rating that has a bumper on it.”
You don’t know much about towing if you, one, built a heavy trailer without knowing what was going to tow it, and two, if you thought a bumper hitch would pull 10+ tons. Obviously, your knowledge of such matters is lacking since you also thought FR was the place to get an answer.
If you were half as smart as you think you are, I’d help you out with your ignorance and consider it charity.