Time should really be ashamed. They took something precious and turned it into smut. And yes, I told my youngest that if he could sing his ABC’s, he didn’t need to nurse anymore. (he was precocious, and could do it at 2.5.......)
My last daughter was less than 2 when I started weaning her. She was toddling around and it was time. Those teeth hurt at times. OUCH!
When is a good time to wean? When they say “Other side please”.