all long term relationships are complicated. notice I was not married to the man. nor married him. i am married to day. that is a real relationship commitment. all the rest often are superficially based. that is why they don’t last a lifetime.
I see I touched a nerve.
You’re the one that decided to post about your history and make it out to be no big deal you knew you were in a shallow relationship using another person.
Many people only realize AFTER the relationship is over that it was superficial compared to the one they wind up marrying. You went into it knowing the only reason you were in it was because he was a good looking sugar daddy for you.