I never dated a woman who’s looks far outstripped her personality. I have been attracted to certain women physically but never dated them because either they were into someone else or I knew the personality mix was wrong.
Not a saint, I just never did any mutual-use relationships. My dating years were also before friends-with-benefits was considered an accepted possibility.
I’ve never had a “friends with benefits” relationship but I might be open to it if it was exclusive. That actually sounds like a pretty good marriage to me. All the good stuff without any of the misery. If I could find a woman that would do an “exclusive friends with benefits plus a marriage certificate” relationship I would be on that like a secret service agent.
who’s == whose
Define use. So a person enjoys another’s company and laughs a lot in their presence. So the person who enjoy is basking in the feelings of enjoyment. The same person feels great laughing while in the presence of the other. So are you telling me that these positive feelings are not the impetus for reaching out the other for positive feelings in the future? We all use each other in different ways. The difference between you and I is that I am more insightful, obviously intelligent, and honest. :)