[GOP Poet]

I do hope you take my suggestion to heart in post #8. These sort of relationships can benefit both parties. Not just you and not just her. if there is a mutual attraction there is a reason. It may be a multitude of things on her end. It is just from my experience I had some clear bottom lines that were true for me over time regarding the relationship. Also he was very jealous of men my age and often felt inadequate about our age difference whereas I did not. He was aging though and I was not so I could not understand his jealousy and his self consciousness. Now of course that I am in my mid forties I see what was happening for him. He became very violent when I left when I grew up. Sadly he was obsessed.

You need to guard this within yourself as well and realize one day she too will be older and aging. She will not be forever young and your fantasies need to be told this every once in awhile when your obsession for the youthful female take you over. They will all be older and aged one day.

[21twelve]

I know a guy that is on his fifth wife from the Phillipines. I imagine he is around 62 now. He brings them over to the U.S., they make for a good wife cooking, keeping house, “and they are all REALLY good in bed.”

After whatever years they have been married and they have full citizenship or a green card or something, they ask for a divorce.

“That’s fine - by that time I’m wanting something different anyway. Its sort of like leasing a fancy car - and about the same price too.”

The last time I saw him he was going to a “family” party with his current wife and all but one ex-wives. And his son that he had with the first one (an adult now).

I thought it pretty odd - but to each his own. And everyone is happy and got what they wanted.