“In the Netherlands if a girl is in a relationship, shes not a slut for wanting sex, for making decisions about sex, she said.”
No. She becomes abandoned by the father.
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Healthday/story?id=7578204&page=2
“More Single Women Are Having Babies
The largest increases were seen in the Netherlands, where out-of-wedlock births rose from 4 to 40 percent. In Spain, out-of-wedlock births increased from 4 percent to 28 percent, in Ireland the numbers went from 5 to 33 percent and in Italy they rose from 4 to 21 percent....”
I think we are approaching 40% in this country — at least among minorities. It is a very sad situation.