My daughters, who are both IS2s, would totally agree with you and it's why they have both become disenchanted, disillusioned, disgusted with the Navy. They re-uped and have 3 years left. They're gone after that.
I served 20 years in the Navy, retiring in 1998. I now provide technical assistance to the ships. I see where officers like this one are leading the Navy. And here is an example.....
One ship here, I won’t name which one, has a female CO. This CO is the ONLY one (and she’s not the CO of a CVN) that has a government sedan parked next to the brow to take her down the pier to her car in the parking lot.
I was working across the pier on another ship when I saw the sedan pull up and this CO got out in her PT gear.
Even the Admirals walk down the pier to the ships. This Captain has a sedan with a junior enlisted driver.
BTW, this is one of the most fouled up ships on the waterfront.