“If only people could see that their fear, anger, and hatred casts out love.”
So, you won’t mind being sexually assaulted as that would just be fear, anger, and hatred.
Oh, and, uh, you won’t mind some pervert grabbing your little doggie and sodomizing it. I mean, you wouldn’t want to be judgemental; that would be fear, anger, and hatred.
Nevermind the sick naked bastard that runs around with something sticking out his butt in a public “gay-days” parade in front of children, otherwise you would be showing fear, anger, and hatred.
Been there, been the victim as a child. And the worst part of it was, like most children who are victims, they blame themselves for what happened, carry the guilt of the situation, and reverse their reward/punishment system as they feel they need to be punished to remove the guilt.
Every day I work with this and show how the emotional subconscious punishes through immune system suppression later in life.
It sounds as though you don’t understand that forgiveness is to set yourself free, not to remove the perpetrator from the consequences of their actions.