I somehow know that you will wear Hubby down. :)
Welcome. Here’s a tip for growing really flavorful tomatoes. If you live in an area that does not rain much in the summer you can super soak the ground your tomatoes are growing in just after fruits start to set. This lets the plant concentrate flavor without being diluted by fresh water.
This does not work for container growing, but is fantastic even for raised beds.
To super soak, let a hose with fairly gentle pressure water for at least eight hours, or even overnight.