Sorry but your post and your byline seem to be in great conflict.
Perhaps but it’s true. There are nice guys I work with & then some who are just plain abusive. I see nothing wrong with calling that what it is.
What’s key is how one acts in response. Do we bear wrongs patiently or act out in vengeance? I’m sorry to say there’s been times I’ve allowed people to provoke a rather un-Christian response from me, but I’m slowly overcoming that with God’s grace. It’s easy to get snippy when some egomaniac is barking at you.