[trebb]

.”If you dont get turned down a hundred times a night, you aint trying hard enough.”

And, on the flip side, if you are in a relationship and not looking, they also seem to flock towards you.

[HANG THE EXPENSE]

Isnt that the truth.

[PapaBear3625]

And, on the flip side, if you are in a relationship and not looking, they also seem to flock towards you.

I think their thought is "If he's not in a relationship, then there's something wrong with him. If he IS in a relationship, then there's something right with him".

I experienced this phenomenon when I started going out with the girl I eventually married. I received a LOT more interest. Maybe also the guy who is getting laid on a regular basis seems more confident and less desperate, and that is a turn on for women.

Something like the old saying "A bank won't give you a loan until you can prove you don't need it".

[potlatch]

[if you are in a relationship and not looking, they also seem to flock towards you. ]

When I was in college there was an extremely good looking guy in one of my classes and all the girls flocked to him. I never showed an interest and one day after class he stopped me to ask for a date. I turned him down because I was going with someone at the time.

It’s the ‘disinterest’ angle I guess.