Precisely ... and that’s why I would rather have lunch and a long chat with her. Have you read her book? She miss applied the analogy of Flatland! We could start a chat there ...
I have no problem with lunch and a long chat ...
I’m objecting to the idea that BES can’t or don’t “let their hair down” and talk about things other than engineering and science.
IOW, I don’t find the idea of pillow-talk with a brilliant (female) engineer or scientist odd.
Maybe I misread your point ...