Frankly, it's not likely that she dated many "decent" guys from match.com. There have been several studies that estimated over half of the men were married and almost all of the men were merely looking for a "quick date".
Long-term relationships do happen on match.com, but they aren't typical.
My exposure to that is limited, since I'm married and not looking for something on the side. I have worked with people who met and married on that site, but if a married man I knew was cheating there, I'm sure he would not tell me. If the dates were with married men, then they both got what they wanted, I suppose, and both participants in that business transaction disgust me.
I think I just got an idea for a web site. I’m not good at taking initiative and starting big projects like this so I am going give it up free to anybody wanting to follow-up.;)
Dating reviews
Organized by match.com number or other dating site reference numbers.
It would be like reviews for hotels and resorts with categories for looks, conversation, high or low maintenance, gold digger quotient, and promiscuity index.
Guys section could have looks, income level, sense of humor, creepyness factor, and body hair issues.
You’re welcome.