judges don’t look celestial.
judges look for the lie.
she lied.
she lied to become pregnant.
she lied to accomplish mercenary goals.
the children were just a means to an end.
They are the ONLY innocent party here and really the party whose best interest should guide the court.
Neither parent is a prize and whiny sperm boy has been no better than the conniving stripper. They deserve each other in every way, but the kids deserve first consideration.
It may be that neither sperm nor egg donor is a fit parent, certainly they both engaged in behavior which quite properly put them in this court battle and I have zero problem with assessing child support on both of them and putting the offspring with responsible extended family.
Neither one could put a condom on his or her soul. They screw both of themselves fooling sexually together out of matrimony. And the celestial Judge knows and has already set things up so that it brings curses, not blessings. It would be like trying to ride horses backwards, falling on your can, then blaming the horses, the saddle, everything but your own stupidity. And this goes double for “OH, PUHLEEEEEEEEZEmen.”