And if the guy decided all on his own, to put holes in the condom because he alone decided he wanted a kid, and she had no idea and got pregnant, you’d say she totally deserved it?
You’d say she left herself open to this happening to her, and you’d have very little sympathy for her, and not blame the guy that much like you’re not blaming the gal now?
You forget she was using him for sex as well. They were both wanting to have sex with each other. You appear to forget women like sex too. He admits he didn’t want kids, and he used a condom. What is clearer to a woman of his intentions, but she didn’t care as she had pre-planned to do this DESPITE knowing his stated and obvious (condom) steps to not get her pregnant.
Most people here, except for a few people who lack the intellect to differentiate between liberty and libertine accept that engaging in sex comes with an obligation to care for any children.
It is called being an adult.