34 - 14? I won’t chirp in with any funny comments - that’s just plain horrible and warped in the head.
Fourteen years old is in no way a man, there’s no excuse whatsoever for what she did. Throw the book at her!
You are right, a rapist is a rapist and they should be treated the same, i.e. sent to prison, regardless of their gender or the gender of their victim.