I agree with your assessment. Somewhere I had read of a classic explanation for that state of being. Simply put, the person is so involved in their own world and certainly with people who are wedded to a career - description is apt. That being a "Professional Bachelor".
The lovely lady who is also a pianist and who did so well in the Bush administration fits that description. I bear in mind the wise saying that "one cannot disprove a smear". Not completely true in every case, but there is just no hard and fast rule to crush a smear. That is why the lefties use smears.