Oh, I must apologize, I though it was grey-whiskers that pushed the button for your help, but on looking back I see it was SonofRegan.
If you get a few moments you should read though his comments to me, which were off topic, erupted out of nowhere, and attempts at personal insults, and perhaps you will understand the replies I made.
Oh, and this gem,
“It must be so hard to be so desired by men. Get conceited much? Ha ha...another failure in life and love pretending it doesnt matter. You screwed up sister, no one wants you now. Its over for you.”
Not an attempt at a personal attack at all? No no no. And completely on topic.
So, we are not allowed to respond to such in kind? It would appear not.