At one time I had crew on both shifts..I got it from all sides...and dealt with it. I know EXACTLY what you’re talking about.
Pagers were just becoming vogue then...I wanted to throw mine in the river.
The ability to cope with the worst situations has to become a source of pride or you’ll never survive in any kind of management position.
If you don’t “embrace the horror” as I called it, things won’t get done.