Oh, geez. I hate flying already, this didn’t help. I only fly about once every 2 years, home to visit my family. And I am anxiety-ridden and convinced I’m about to die from the minute that plane leaves the ground till we land again and come to a complete halt.
I suggest alcohol. Lots of alcohol.
Or Xanax.
That you are still around is a testament to the safety of flying.
I used to be like you. When we landed safely, I always felt as if I had somehow ‘cheated’ death. When you arrive safely at your destination in an automobile, do you feel as if you dodged a bullet? It stems from your false sense of ‘control’ in a car. Do you have ‘control’ over other drivers speeding toward you in the opposite direction, separated by a painted line on the road? When I finally realized the silliness of my fear, I was cured. It is a tough phobia to overcome, however.
Q. What's the definition of a good airplane landing?
A. When the passengers can leave under their own power.
Q. What's the definition of a great airplane landing?
A. When the plane can be flown again.
I feel like you do when I fly.
It's totally irrational, I know.