He’s probably a poster child lib. They think all liberty loving conservatives are filthy rich.
Cableguymn, do whatever you have to do for your family, there is no shame, nor should anyone ever judge you, it’s your decision.
As far as your wife, check into EFT for faster healing and stress relief. I’m into more natural cures and don’t have much good for doctors. Would have sent you more info but you don’t have any contact info set up on your home page.
Your family is in my prayers.