He endured YEARS away from his family and home for the betterment of America and ran the bureaucracy behind the Revolutionary effort singlehandedly at times.
I like the following lines from the movie 1776:
“Abigail: I never asked for more. After all, I am Mrs. John Adams and that’s quite enough for one lifetime.
John Adams: Is it, Abby?
Abigail: Well, think of it, John, to be married to the man who is always the first in line to be hanged!”
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0068156/quotes