When it’s adultery, I blame both parties involved. She knew she was boinking a man who had a wife at home. Her future husband may someday screw around on her and let’s see how she likes it.
They treat the cheating woman (and keep in mind she's making every effort to break up a family under God) as if she's some kind of mental defective or underage and helpless--instead of pointing out how immoral she is. Look at her picture and the hanging lower lip--I just detest that pose, as if she's burning with lust, but you see it a lot.