And so one young person's mistakes made you so jaded towards men in general? I'm not buying it.
You are deliberately twisting my comments to fit your own jaded mindset.
The young man in my family is devastated by the loss of contact with his child. He and his daughter are victims of a controlling young woman - who appears to believe that she (because she gave birth) should be the custodial parent.
Traditional religious-based, social norms of virginity before marriage and fidelity afterwards were demonstrably superior to what passes as socially acceptable behavior today.