You are very smart. Not lying. You shouldn’t have to settle for a loser or some guy just wanting physical stuff. There’s so much disease out there it just isn’t worth it. Your life could be changed permanently forever in one night.
If that isn’t enough to make people really think about holding off, much less have affairs or stuff like that, I don’t know what will.
Well thank you. But take a look at the rest of this thread and you'll see what a woman is up against. I can't tell you how depressing this thread is to a conservative woman. Your choices come down to being a skank with liberal men or sitting at home on Saturday night because fortysomething conservative men have decided that just because you have a career and you're their age, you're a feminist, in menopause and "American Women Suck." I know that's an oversimplification but really, take a look at where this thread goes. 42 year old men passing on 38 year old women because of "biology" (what happens when you marry the 25 year old and find out your sperm count is too low?you've married a brood mare who will still be young when you're getting old...often a recipe for disaster) and others suggesting Asian brides for hire. Marriage is supposed to be asupportive, nuturing relationship between two who regard each other as having different strengths and roles to play but equal as partners. The relationships being proposed on this thread...aren't that at all.