The article assumes things that are not facts. How about the fact that the vast majority of “women” are nothing but little girls and are not worth marrying?
There’s that.
And since most good male role models have been all but taken away by the media, hollywood, the schools, un-family welfare policies and no-fault divorce, many of today’s guys aren’t really great pickings either.
Compound it with the fact that as more people stay single longer, the more they get used to having things their own way. They’ve lived longer on their own, living the way they want to live and then they have to live with someone else who’s also lived longer on their own, living their own way - and neither of them has had to really change their way of living for anyone else. I think this would be more difficult as you get older and live on your own longer. Unless you find someone who lives almost the same as you do.
Bingo.
I’m nearly 30 (next month), I talk to and date women, and I’m consistently amazed at how few females out there are actually worth marrying.
In fact, when older women ask me how I haven’t been snatched up yet (because all older women love me), I always tell them “because I haven’t found a woman worth marrying yet.” There are far too many GIRLS out there and not nearly enough WOMEN.
I’m at a point where I’ve essentially given up. It’s just not worth the hassle anymore. Hell, I’m not even that picky, I’m just looking for someone who is mature and takes cares of themself.
If you operate on the assumption that no one is worth marrying, no woman is good enough for you to consider, you’re creating a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Much depends on where you shop, too. And if you choose women/girls to whom you’re physically attracted, then try to find one among the lovelies who has good character, statistically you’re going to have much worse luck than if you make character your first criterion and beauty further down the list.
Many years ago a wise person told me that the trick is not to find the right person but to be the right person. Bitterness and a conviction that there are no good people out there guarantee that you won’t be the right person for anyone, your relationships will end badly, and you’ll end up alone.