“Successful child abuse.”
No, raising a kid in a traditional manner. The way it was done for the first 4,930 years of recorded human history.
If you think that yelling and an occasional spanking is “ABUSE”, you’ve spent WAY too much time in psych classes (and actually believed that crap).
Kids have been pulling a fast one on their parents since the beginning of time. It doesn’t give you the right to abuse your kids.