I know what you mean.
I know a woman, married, 4 kids, 2 teens 2 preteens, all 6 have cell phones, just got satellite, and can’t make their house payments...on a deal they got for house for clunkers...after having had vehicles repossessed...
Sometimes it is hard to remember there are people out there that are truly having a tough time- not every one is a leech. But enough are it makes it hard for those that are trying to help themselves.