Sorry to sound rude, but the “Barefoot Contess” doesn’t have to do this. Personally, I would try to bend over backward if someone from “Make a Wish” asked me to do something and it surprises me that this chef won’t do it, but I’m not going to damn her for it. The parents need to calm down and work with the child to come up with another wish. And the organization should not bad mouth this chef or leak damaging information—that just hurts the program.
Of course they should. That's how you get what you want. You squeeze some nuts.
Celebrities make they're living off their image. It's not like any of her fans will ever taste this woman's food. She makes her money of off the personality they project onto her.
Let her serve as a warning to other celebrities.