1. Yes, I'm male. 2. My guess would be that the kind of man who is dangerous and fantasizes about female students would not argue that a man committing that crime is worse than a woman. I am very happy to be married to someone my own age rather than in a relationship with a teenage girl.
And as a man, who engages in teenage boy’s fantasies, by giving a pass to a female predator doing the same thing as a male predator, is called hypocrisy.