I was fishing a local trout stream last summer, when my attention was fixed on a fish that was feeding nearby. I looked up and there on the bank I spied an acquaintancenationally known fly-fishing guide and outfitter Dave Tucker. Immediately I became aware of my own performance, bungled the next cast, and lost the fish. So it is when we turn our attention away from the activity at hand and think about ourselves.
W. H. Auden has an engaging little poem about those who forget themselves in an activitya cook mixing a sauce, a surgeon making an incision, a clerk completing a bill of lading. He says that all wear the same rapt expression, forgetting themselves in a function. That phrase forgetting themselves in a function brings Philippians 2:3-4 to mind: Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out . . . for the interests of others.
When Im listening to a friend, I need to remind myself to focus on him, not to begin wondering how I look, what he thinks of me, what I should say next. Lets put others first by listening in rapt attention, concentrating on the one in front of us, forgetting ourselves.
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A few years ago there was a movie,
“Like Water For Chocolate” I did not read the book yet.
It was interesting, focused on a family and how the younger daughter had to care for Mama and not marry. ... She did the cooking for all. She cooked with love for her beloved. She cooked with anger for her sister that had digestion problems, and was going to marry her beloved.
Rent it and stay with it. It does not move too fast.
IE the food prepared with love did miracles ...
Wouldn’t it be great if we could do all that we do, with love?
It would or might remake the world of today.
Sometime lets take a day, and all day, do all with love.