It is. My son wrestled in high school. He had to wrestle a couple of ladies. The girls are good in the lower weight classes and at the freshman level with their lower bodies. Once the guys start to mature and gain upper body strength it is over for the girls.
I watched a good hockey player in 9th grade get beat by a girl. Well you know how that went.
I always told my son. She is stepping on the mat knowing full well what is going to happen. Now BEAT her. Period.
My son played freshman football last year. One of the other local teams had a girl on their team. She did not start or play until the last quarter.
When she finally came it, it changed the game since the boys had problems with more then shoves or tripping her.
I think it is dad’s living via their children and having them do sports traditionally for one sex or the other - I’d guess she does not have a brother and dad focused her into this sport - or, it is a lack of respect for others in that they have to live by their rules regardless of the game or others players feelings.
Great advice, If a female steps into the ring, treat her no different than any other wrestler...