I just didn’t understand it. I hadn’t addressed you and so I was confused. I take it from later posts you’re not too sympathetic to the young man.
Au contraire, to use the esperando — I am the most sympathetic poster to him. Most others, it seems to me, don’t care about HIM they only care about themselves.
Prayers in this state won’t help him. Good deeds, as he knows them, won’t help him.
That’s why trouble and/or a woman are needed.