Come to find out, the guy was living a total double life. By a tip, the cops found bones on his property. Those bones were found to be those of gays he had picked up, brought home for sex and murdered by auto erotic asphyxiation.
Later they suspected he was picking guys up on a well known travel corridor between Indy and Ohio and doing the same.
When the cops were onto him, he fled to Canada and was tracked to a motel where he had shot himself to death.
This was a case that was hard for people to fathom because they just couldn't believe that a person could be gay, married and have kids.
A neighbor of ours has twin boys. While she was still single, she formed a relationship with a man for the purpose of becoming pregnant. She is now “married” to a woman, and they are raising the two boys.
How often have we seen that story of married men and women “coming out” after being married with children? It often happens around middle age.
Unlike normal people, male homosexuals view everything through the prism of their sexual obsession. What else could motivate people to have unprotected sex with total strangers in a public restroom ?
I knew a homosexual here who had been previously married, had two children, and threw them over to follow his penis. He had numerous "boyfriends", all of whom he cheated on, and eventually died from AIDS.
I knew another in Seattle who'd been in a relationship with his partner for over 15 years. He also cheated on his partner, keeping that quiet. His partner died of AIDS somewhat later.
Male homosexuals have an almost insatiable sex drive (not that unusual for a male) but have neither learned to control it, or direct it properly towards women. They prefer the company of like minded men, who are much easier to obtain sex from.