I just cant for the life of me see what harm this stuff does to teen age boys.
Nothing. Complete bragging rights. He will be the hero of the school. It is definitely different. If this was a 40 year old man with a 16 year old girl it would be disgusting for sure.
Strom Thurmond was 68 when he had his first kid with his 25 year old wife. He has a total of 4 kids with his wife, starting at age 68. She was 43 years younger than him.
It’s not disgusting. It’s totally normal.
The opposite - younger man / older woman - is weird.