My son-in-law isn't. I know a few others that aren't. Of course, I know a few that are, too.
I have been VERY happily married to one of those “uber-geeks” for almost 45 years.
Back when he was courting me, (1965) some of his competitors for my hand tried that to beat him out.
I knew the difference between a quiet thoughtful man who didn’t care for the bar scene, topless night clubs, and stag films, and chest-thumpers who competed regularly to out-bawdy each other, with barefoot and pregnant jokes!
I thank God for whispering “ignore these fools” every day.