Well then, lets just dumb down the expectations of our kids shall we?
NO! How do you not get it? What I said is undeniably true. Not everyone can get straight "A's" or be #1.
You set the expectation that kids perform up to their potential.
I have a daughter with a brain injury. Is she of any less value than her “gifted” brother or sister?
Thank God, she has a lot of faith, and she knows her true value with God.
She is also sweeter and a harder worker than her brother and sister. She wants to be an accountant, and she will probably make a lot more money than her brother and sister because of hard work.