It’s not victimhood, it’s damned rudeness. My telling you to ‘shut up, I’m talking with someone else’, is like talking to a child. This woman was a co-worker. She had every right to comment. Just as you do. You haven’t been able to resist commenting. Again, I made my point with you as well. Thank you.
If you wanna talk rights, she had the right to comment and he had the right to tell her to stuff it. The issue isnt about what was said. It is about how she handled it, by running to daddy. The fact that you back someone who tells the boss instead of handling it themselves suggests that you see the world through victimhood. The fact that you fight this so much suggests that it is personal.