Is being a jerk a suspendible offense? I could see the same conversation happening at my work and no one complaining at all. People need thicker skin and shorter memories.
Leave this discussion up to me, honeybunch.
Just by purely reading this report, I have a suspicion there’s much more to this story.
Your workplace must be rather different from mine then, because, where I work, calling a colleague (in a non-humorous way) an "asshole" would likely prompt much more than a "complaint," regardless of the sexes involved in the exchange.