The thing is, I’m not going to argue with people who won’t look at facts and who do not have the ability to deal with facts...good luck! You may be grown up, but are obviously not capable of discerning.
Yet again, you choose to reject reality and substitute your own in an effort to make you own little bubble safe and secure for your fragile ego. Yes, the folks did lie to you and fill your head with inanities. It's a cryin' shame.