Some paernts maybe. My 9 and S year old can load, start, change over and unload the washer and dryer. They unload the dishwasher only because I’m picky about how the loading is done. My 9 year old takes out the trash and though they prefer velcro shoes, they can tie regular ones. Did I mention they are home schooled?
Mine are well trained too. We do private school and closet home school. This works out best for us. Band and Jazz Band is a favorite - can’t do that homeschooling ... so for now this is how it is.