“Women are attracted to men with a history.”
If what you’re saying is true, life sure isn’t fair. Men are essentially being rewarded for having sex before marriage, while women are punished. From what I’ve seen, it isn’t even primarily men who punish women for having premarital sex, it’s mostly women who call other unchaste women whores and sluts.
No, men just know for what to value a slut. It is not for a long-term-relationship. However, women love to delude themselves into thinking that she's "the one" for whom he gave up all the other women because it feeds their egos.
In other settings, have you ever observed women who work together in an office? They are evil to each other in that setting as well. And it is much different than how men would be to each other.