I live near Tulsa and I swear sometimes I think the faggots have taken over the city. I haven't lived here all that long but I would guess Oklahoma City is about the same. The general population of OK is conservative, but like so many places, we're led around by America hating fascist liberals.
Both cities have “gay villages”. Oklahoma City also has an openly gay state representative. Almost every major city has such neighborhoods. Some have more than one. There are also small towns, particularly those that are arts communities, that have sizable gay populations.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_gay_villages#United_States